We present a first example of a flag vector of a polyhedral sphere that is not the flag vector of any polytope. Namely, there is a unique
-sphere with the parameters
, but this sphere is not realizable by a convex
-sphere, which is
-simplicial, was found by Werner [Linear constraints on face numbers of polytopes. PhD Thesis, TU Berlin, Germany, 2009]; we present results of a computer enumeration which imply that the sphere with these parameters is unique. We prove that it is non-polytopal in two ways: first, we show that it has no oriented matroid, and thus it is not realizable; this proof was found by computer, but can be verified by hand. The second proof is again a computer-based oriented matroid proof and shows that for exactly one of the facets this sphere does not even have a diagram based on this facet. Using the non-polytopality, we finally prove that the sphere is not even embeddable as a polytopal complex.