Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- List of figures
- List of tables
- About the authors
- Preface
- PART 1 Students in the global market
- PART 2 Security in the formal and public domain
- PART 3 Security in the informal and private domain
- 11 The universities
- 12 Language
- 13 Family and friends
- 14 Loneliness
- 15 Intercultural relations
- PART 4 Protection and empowerment
- References
- Index
13 - Family and friends
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 05 August 2012
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- List of figures
- List of tables
- About the authors
- Preface
- PART 1 Students in the global market
- PART 2 Security in the formal and public domain
- PART 3 Security in the informal and private domain
- 11 The universities
- 12 Language
- 13 Family and friends
- 14 Loneliness
- 15 Intercultural relations
- PART 4 Protection and empowerment
- References
- Index
Summary
Family, that's your comfort zone. You have to build a whole new comfort zone, and you try to find where you are going to fit. You can't really keep on holding on to … I'm in Australia but I'm still very Malay, I do things the Malaysian way. Yes, you have to find that balance.
~ female, 21, computing, MalaysiaINTRODUCTION: NETWORKS, RELATIONSHIPS AND STUDENT SECURITY
The literature on social capital distinguishes bonding and bridging networks. ‘Bonding’ means ties of family, kin, locality, friends like oneself and ethnic or fraternal organisations. It tends to exclude outsiders. ‘Bridging’ ties are more open and inclusive. They bring people together with others different from themselves. Educational institutions can facilitate horizontal bridging between people of different classes, localities, cultural backgrounds and nations.
Both forms of association contribute to international student security. Weiss argues that ‘different types of relationship make different provisions’. People have varying needs and multiple linkages and networks. He nominates six kinds of provision: ‘attachment, social integration, reliable alliance, guidance, reassurance of worth and opportunity for nurturance’. No relationship fulfils all needs, though intimate relations with a partner may fulfil several of them. Weiss distinguishes ‘social loneliness’ triggered by desires for social integration, attachment and alliance, from ‘emotional loneliness’. In a study of university students DiTommaso and Spinner confirm the categories of social and emotional loneliness and, within emotional loneliness, distinguish between family loneliness and romantic loneliness.
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- International Student Security , pp. 324 - 364Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2010