Editorial introduction

This chapter explore resilience as a response to the ordinary experiences of loss in later life: loss of relationships, loss of a home and loss of objects. Objects, or their absence, feature prominently here. Material culture studies looks at the role objects have in supporting human relationships and memories. Creativity is primarily discussed in terms of the everyday processes of curating objects (and, hence, curating memories and relationships). However, creativity also appears in the research methods that were used to draw out the participants’ stories, revealing this intersection of resilience, material culture and everyday creativity.

Introduction

The discussion in this chapter critically explores resilience, learning (as a process of being and becoming fully human) (Gill, 2014) and everyday creativity through self-curation in the context of the process of decluttering as a response to loss. Although consumer societies’ concern with materialism has long been seen as detrimental to the quality of human relationships, Miller (2008, p 1) points out that ‘the closer our relationships are with objects, the closer our relationships are with people’. How are our relationships with people, places and things affected through loss over time, and is that resulting absence tangible, emotional or somehow both? How does loss change and transform us as we age? Absence and loss are not merely emptiness or a state of non- or no-longer-being. Instead, absence is ‘something performed, textured and materialised through relations and processes, and via objects’ (Meyer, 2012, p 103). Meyer goes on to suggest:

Within the broader context of this discussion, the constructs of resilience and self-curation are problematic in themselves as descriptors of what happens when lives are lived through profound experiences of loss over time and in particularly resonant places.