Book contents
- Emotion Regulation and Parenting
- Studies in Emotion and Social Interaction
- Emotion Regulation and Parenting
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Preface
- Part I Conceptual Foundations
- Part II Influence of Parents’ Emotion Regulation on Parenting
- Part III Influence of Parenting on Child Emotion Regulation
- Part IV Current Trends
- Chapter 10 Culture and the Challenges of Being a Good Parent
- Chapter 11 Leveraging Parent–Youth Interactions to Measure and Analyze Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 12 Neurobiology of Parenting and Implications for Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 13 Emotional Labor in Parenting
- Chapter 14 Enhancing Parental Emotion Regulation Skills
- Conclusions and Perspectives
- Index
- Studies in Emotion and Social Interaction
- References
Chapter 10 - Culture and the Challenges of Being a Good Parent
from Part IV - Current Trends
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 05 January 2024
Book contents
- Emotion Regulation and Parenting
- Studies in Emotion and Social Interaction
- Emotion Regulation and Parenting
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Preface
- Part I Conceptual Foundations
- Part II Influence of Parents’ Emotion Regulation on Parenting
- Part III Influence of Parenting on Child Emotion Regulation
- Part IV Current Trends
- Chapter 10 Culture and the Challenges of Being a Good Parent
- Chapter 11 Leveraging Parent–Youth Interactions to Measure and Analyze Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 12 Neurobiology of Parenting and Implications for Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 13 Emotional Labor in Parenting
- Chapter 14 Enhancing Parental Emotion Regulation Skills
- Conclusions and Perspectives
- Index
- Studies in Emotion and Social Interaction
- References
Summary
Culture sets the agenda for parenting and defines what being a good parent entails. In this chapter, we review evidence for this point from both the popular literature and from cross-cultural academic research, including our own. Parenting ideas and practices in the United States, Europe, sub-Saharan Africa, and East Asia are described as they relate to the challenges of being a good parent. Particular attention is given to the role of culturally based parental ethnotheories as a basis for action and reflection on oneself as a parent. The chapter concludes with consideration of how current rapid culture change creates new challenges for being a good parent and thus for emotion regulation and a sense of well-being.
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- Emotion Regulation and Parenting , pp. 189 - 204Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2023
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