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Under Reduced Circumstances: Space and Place for the Aging

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  16 January 2009

Clarence Mondale
Affiliation:
Professor of American Civilization at George Washington University, Washington, D.C. 20052, U.S.A.

Extract

We only half-understand how meaning depends upon geography. We usually think of meaning in global terms, as having to do with the universals of truth, goodness, and beauty. But global meanings are anchored in the unselfconscious geography of everyday life, the “rhythmic functional patterns” by which we order time and space. Those patterns change over the lifetime of the individual, profoundly altering what life means to him.

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Copyright © Cambridge University Press 1988

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38 Tuan discusses middle-aged fantasy, Space and Place, 86. The authors of The Meaning of Things discovered that mid-career adults, asked what they would do if they could do anything they wanted, uniformly named travel as their first priority. The book goes on to talk about Tuan's kind of fantasy worlds (148–49).

39 Eva and Boaz Kahana, “Environmental Continuity, Futurity, and Adaptation of the Aged,” in Rowles, and Ohta, , Aging and Milieu, 220Google Scholar, divide the adventurous aged into four categories: the explorers, for whom any move is welcome; the helpers, who want to do for others; the fun-seekers; and the relatively disengaged comfort-seekers.

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41 Longino, , 241–42Google Scholar. A retirement community named Kimberly City has been created within commuting distance of the town (20 miles out). It is located on a mountain bluff in such a way so as to give each homeowner his own view of serpentine Table Lake. Sun City, Arizona, attracts the same population group, for many of the same reasons: family and friends are important, but the amenities, climate especially, is determinant. See Gober and Zonn, above cited, n. 37. I find Tuan's comments about the differences between rootedness and sense of place (Space and Place, 193–98Google Scholar) useful in understanding what place means to the amenities migrants.

42 Bohland and Treps (see n. 37) describe the evolution of retirement regions in the recent past (see especially the map on 151).

43 In this case Sun City, Arizona. (There are others.) It sits across the highway from an earlier retirement village called “Youngtown.” See Trillin, Calvin, “A Reporter at Large: Wake Up and Live,” New Yorker, 4 04 1964, 151Google Scholar. The notion that the Sun City residents are “outcasts” (170) informs Trillin's article.

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61 Rowles, , Prisoners of Space?Google Scholar, does a very nice job of describing difficulties in what he calls the “negotiation” of the environment by the very old. This shows up best in his accounts of each of his five subjects, which includes a description of their daily rounds. Myerhoff describes how the world contracted for members of the Jewish centre she was studying once there was no one to drive an automobile. When those individuals became very old, religious services were relocated and rescheduled so as to accommodate the frailties of its participants (258). Myerhoff opens her book with a wonderful quotation from an old lady, having to do with getting about: “Every morning I wake up in pain. I wiggle my toes. Good. They still obey. I open my eyes. Good. I can see. Everything hurts but I get dressed. I walk down to the ocean. Good. It's still there. Now my day can start. About tomorrow you never know. After all, I'm eighty-nine. I can't live forever” (I).

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66 Johnson, Malcolm, “That Was Your Life: A Biographical Approach in Later Life,” in Munnichs, J. M. A. and van der Heuvel, W. J. A., eds., Dependency or Interdependency in Old Age (The Hague: Martinus Nijhoff, 1976), 156Google ScholarPubMed. Johnson's article is an eloquent protest against an overemphasis upon statistics and public policy in research on the elderly.

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74 An elderly rural lady told Rowles how a television set could be a means of keeping an oar in: “I sit here [on a Sunday] and look out the window and watch [my friends] all go [to church], and then I turn the TV on and listen. It's the next best thing…. and then at noon, I watch them all come back.” Rowles, , “The Surveillance Zone,” 308Google Scholar. Unruh, David R., Invisible Lives: Social Worlds of the Aged (Beverly Hills: Sage Publications, 1983), emphasizes how the house–bound elderly can involve themselves at long-distance, by telephone or mail, in certain group activities (like, stamp-collecting).Google Scholar

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85 My favourite article on the subject is Richardson, John, “The Catch in the Late Picasso,” New York Review of Books, 19 07 1984, 2128Google Scholar. A more general treatment is Woodward, Kathleen, “Master Sons of Meditation: The Late Poems of Eliot, Pound, Stevens, and Williams,” in Spicker, ed., 181202Google Scholar. The Spicker book and its companion volume edited by David Van Tassel have several other good articles on the subject. See Van Tassel, David D., ed., Aging, Death and the Completion of Being (Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press, 1979)CrossRefGoogle Scholar. Beauvoir (492) says that “it is often at the very moment that the aged man, having become old, has doubts about the value of his entire work that he carries it to the highest point of perfection.” She claims this was the case with Rembrandt, Michelangelo, Verdi and Monet. Cowley speculates, throughout his short book, on the connections between aging and creativity.

86 Shepard, Paul, “Place and the Child” (unpublished paper delivered at the 1985 American Studies Association convention), 35.Google Scholar

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89 Butler, Robert N., “The Life Review: An Interpretation of Reminiscence in the Aged,” Psychiatry, 26 (1963), 6576CrossRefGoogle ScholarPubMed, depends upon Erikson. In Why Survive?, Butler, 412Google Scholar, declares Erikson's theory “inadequate” (cf. comments, 400–01).

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101 Beland, Francois, “The Decision of Elderly Persons to Leave Their Homes,” The Gerontologist, 24 (1984), 183, lists these as “traditional” reasons for moving to institutionalized care.CrossRefGoogle ScholarPubMed

102 Tibbies, Lance, “Medical and Legal Aspects of Competency in Old Age,” in Spicker, 127–51. describes legal criteria of competence as at once unsophisticated and inflexible. Blythe tells the poignant story of a retired female academic: “She is one of those old people whose lives have been briskly and practically rearranged by others with the best intentions. After an absence of 50 years, she was returned to her old home. …[S]he is as much displaced by being brought back to her roots as if she had ended up… with a group of strangers” (192).Google Scholar

103 Longino, , “American Retirement Communities and Residential Relocation,” 242–46Google Scholar. Longino (249) speaks of “within-type moves” in describing very general patterns of migration (for instance from one SMSA to another), but the phrase applies nicely, and comprehensively, to his description of the patterns of migration to particular communities.

104 Beland, , 184Google Scholar, says that residents in senior housing, in Quebec anyway, tend to be in better shape than individuals in the same situation who decide to stay in place.

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107 Through inflexibility of rules and authoritarian management, for example. Howell, , 105Google Scholar, has described a “world without place,” a final insult to any sense of self-worth, obviously having a nursing-home environment in mind. Tobin, , 196Google Scholar, claims that it is worse than that. He says that “[most] institutional elderly… reside in proprietary nursing homes that have been under investigation for patient abuse.”

108 Koch, , 5, 43, 91, 107Google Scholar. Koch argues eloquently that the proper object of an activity like his was the creation of poetry, not therapy. The idea was not so much that the students should feel good as that they should feel free. He describes his approach in detail (3–57). Mark Kaminsky uses a different approach to the same end, with impressive results, with the very elderly but outside the nursing home. See Kaminsky, “What's Outside You It Shines Out of You,” reprinted in Gross, 209–28 (excerpted from a book of the same title published by Horizon Press in New York).

109 Myerhoff's wonderful cast of characters, in Number Our Days, is exemplary in this respect. Jewish tradition helps keep them going. There are, of course, a few who do give up, as described by Cowley, , 1516.Google Scholar

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