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Spousal Abuse, Children and the Courts: The Case For Social Rather Than Legal Change

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  18 July 2014

Linda Neilson
Affiliation:
Department of Sociology, University of New Brunswick

Abstract

This article explores arguments for and against proposals for statutory changes that would require Canadian judges to consider partner or “spousal” abuse when making decisions about child custody and access, in terms of the likely implications for women. The author discusses, in historic context, the relationships of social change to the evolution of social ideology and professional “knowledge” about gender and family and the influences of these on the evolution of family law, in order to demonstrate that legal changes alone are unlikely to produce positive benefits for abused women and their children. Moreover, an analysis of the legal discourse of judges as reported in the Canadian Reports on Family Law between 1983 and 1996 suggests the need for caution. Instead of judicial sensitivity to the special vulnerabilities of women in abusive situations, the case law indicates that judges are applying an “objective” incidents-based approach to assessments of abuse. Because this approach ignores the special vulnerabilities of women and makes it appear that abuse is symmetrical by gender, women may be disadvantaged if judges are required to deny or limit abuser's access to, or custody of, their children. The author concludes that, if what is intended is the protection of abused women and children, the solution lies less in giving more power to judges than in promoting social change through collective action, the evolution of professional “knowledge” that ultimately will find reflection in law, and the allocation of tangible resources for the benefit of abused women and their children.

Résumé

Dans cet article, l'auteure pèse le pour et le contre de certaines modifications à la loi qui obligeraient les juges canadiens, au moment de l'octroi des droits de garde et d'accès, à tenir compte des actes de violence du conjoint ou du conjoint de fait. Elle expose les incidences de telles modifications pour les femmes victimes de violence conjugale. Tentant de démontrer que les modifications à la loi ne peuvent à elles seules améliorer la situation des femmes battues et de leurs enfants, l'auteure fait un survol historique des changements sociaux et de l'évolution du «savoir» professionnel concernant les différences entre les sexes et la notion de famille, et l'impact plus général de cette évolution sur celle du droit de la famille. Or, une analyse du discours judiciaire tel qu'il ressort de la jurisprudence rapportée dans les recueils de droit de la famille entre les années 1983 et 1996 incite à la prudence. En effet, plutôt que de dévoiler une certaine sensibilité judiciaire aux problèmes vécus par les femmes victimes de violence conjugale, la jurisprudence révèle au contraire que les juges abordent la violence conjugale de façon très pragmatique. Cette approche occultant la situation particulière des femmes victimes de violence et envisageant la violence comme phénomène le plus souvent symétrique chez les sexes, les femmes sont défavorisées lorsque les juges limitent ou refusent les droits de garde ou d'accès au père. L'auteure conclut que, si le but des modifications proposées est de protéger les femmes victimes de violence conjugale et leurs enfants, il est davantage souhaitable d'encourager les changements sociaux par l'action collective, le développement du «savoir» professionnel—développement qui, tôt ou tard, trouverait écho dans la loi—et l'octroi effectif de ressources matérielles et financières destinées aux victimes et leurs enfants.

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Copyright © Canadian Law and Society Association 1997

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119. Department of Justice, supra note 14.

120. Davis, Cretney & Collins, supra note 74; Ingleby, supra note 74.

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122. Supra notes 74 and 77.

123. Ibid. There is a need for still more research on the relationships between formal law and the legal practices of parties, lawyers, and mediators.

124. From and including vol. 30 of the second series, to and including (1996) 17 F.L.R. (4th) series.

125. Clark, supra 121, found only 14 cases between 1980 and 1990 indexed to spousal violence or abuse and a custody and access dispute in the Canadian Reports on Family Law series. We did not rely on indexing or headnotes but scanned the family law cases in their entirety. Consequently, we uncovered 113 cases that discussed both partner abuse and child issues during the same period.

126. Lynch v. Lynch (1995), 12 R.F.L. (4th) 367 (Ont. Ct. (Gen. Div.)).

127. Aviles v. Aviles (1988), 17 R.F.L. (3d) 393 (Sask. Q.B.) at 394.

128. Ellis, supra note 6.

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130. In fact, Judith Begley, then a second-year University of New Brunswick law-school student, worked ably and meticulously to collect the major portion of the case-law data discussed in this section.

131. Several years ago, New Brunswick revamped its civil legal aid service. One of the changes was to hire a number of lawyers on a contract basis to provide legal services free of charge to victims of domestic abuse. Those lawyers are commonly referred to as family court solicitors.

132. See also Clark, supra note 121 at 694; Davis, Cretney & Collins, supra note 74.

133. See also Clark, ibid. at 694. In New Brunswick, in affiliation with the Muriel McQueen Fergusson Centre for Family Violence Research at the University of New Brunswick, we have formed a multidisciplinary research team composed of sociologists, lawyers, psychologists, and social workers to explore these pretrial negotiation processes and also the implications for family members of legal decisions made in these circumstances.

134. See supra note 74.

135. Brigante v. Brigante (1991), 32 R.F.L. (3d) 299 (Ont. Unif. Fam. Ct.) at 302.

136. Richardson v. Gardner, supra note 66.

137. McColl v. McColl (1995), 13 R.F.L. (4th) 449 (Ont. Ct. (Gen. Div.)).

138. Savidant v. MacLeod (1992), 40 R.F.L. (3d) 443 (P.E.I. S.C.A.D.) at 445.

139. Savidant v. MacLeod (1991), 32 R.F.L. (3d) 266 (P.E.I. S.C.T.D.) at 266–67.

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142. T. (R.A.) v. T. (I. R. D. J.) (1990), 28 R.F.L. (3d) 79 (N.S. Fam. Ct.) at 83.

143. Bendle v. Bendle (1985), 48 R.F.L. (2d) 120 (Ont Prov. Ct. (Fam. Div.)) at 123.

144. In addition to the cases quoted below, see ibid.; Despatie v. Larouche (1984), 36 R.F.L. (2d) 30 (Que. Sup. C); Dupont v. Dupont (1993), 47 R.F.L. (3d) 273; Richardson v. Gardner, supra note 66 at 306.

145. Cain v. Cain (1983), 33 R.F.L. (2d) 353 (Sask. Q.B.) at 358.

146. See also Langer, R., “Male Domestic Abuse: The Continuing Contrast Between Women's Experiences and Judicial Responses” (1995) 10:1C.J.L.S. 65CrossRefGoogle Scholar.

147. In addition to W. (K.M.) v. W. (D.D.) (1993), 47 R.F.L. (3d) 378 (Ont. Ct. (Prov. Div.)), see also Bendle v. Bendle, supra note 143; Sort v. Poppelwell (1988), 13 R.F.L. (3d) 192 (Sask. Q.B.); Cain v. Cain, supra note 145; Duller v. Duller (1989), 18 R.F.L. (3d) (Ont. H.C.J.) (3d) 53; Dupont v. Dupont, supra note 144; Ellen v. Ellen (1982), 30 R.F.L. (2d) 257 (Sask. Q.B.); Metz v. Metz (1991), 35 R.F.L. (3d) 437 (Sask. Q.B.); Nouveau-Brunswick v.F(C) (1995), 14 R.F.L. (4th) 392 (N.B. C.A.); Richardson v. Gardner, supra note 66; Abdo v. Abdo (1993), 50 R.F.L. (3d) 171 (N.S. S.C. A.D.). These cases were heard at the Supreme Court, not at the Court of Appeal level. When a court of appeal overrules a lower court after it has treated a mother (or anyone for that matter) unfairly, it revises the law to the advantage of those who apply to the court in the future but this does little to remedy the harm already done.

148. W. (K.M) v. W. (D.D.) ibid. at 386.

149. Sort v. Poppelwell, supra note 147.

150. Brigante v. Brigante, supra note 135; Filipe v. Filipe (1995) 14 R.F.L. (4th) 378 (B.C. S.C.). The judge discounted the mother's evidence of abuse in the Brigante case. But see also Jarrett v. Jarrett (1995), 10 R.F.L. (4th) 24 (Ont. Ct. (Gen. Div.)); MacGuyver v. Richards (1995), 11 F.L.R. (4th) 432 (Ont. C.A.).

151. Filipe v. Filipe, ibid. at 381.

152. Ibid. at 381.

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155. Cases denying abusers access to their children did not differ markedly from cases awarding access.

156. See also Barrett v. Barrett (1989), 18 R.F.L. (3d) 186 (Nfld. S.C.T.D.); Brigante v. Brigante, supra note 135; Burk v. Burk (1991), 34 R.F.L. (3d) 27 (Ont. Unif. Fam. Ct.); Ellert v. Ellen, supra note 147; Fanning v. Fanning (1990), 24 R.F.L. (3d) 135 (N.S. S.C.T.D.); Foggo v. Foggo (1984), 40 R.F.L. (2d) 129 (Ont. H.C.J.); Fullarton v. Fullarton (1994), 7 R.F.L. (4th) 272 (N.B. Q.B. (Fam. Div.)); Howe v. Howe (1988), 16 R.F.L. (3d) 387 (N.B. Q.B. (Fam. Div.)); Reid v. Reid (1985), 45 R.F.L. (2d) 173 (B.C. S.C.); Whiffen v. Buckoltz (1987), 7 R.F.L. (3d) 77 9 (B.C. S.C.). Some of the cases were resolved by judicial order after a contested hearing; others were judicial endorsements of agreements reached. I have not distinguished between them because it is my belief that the legal system bears some responsibility for the consequences in both case.

157. Barrett v. Barrett, ibid. at 197.

158. Fanning v. Fanning, supra note 156 at 138.

159. Young v. Young (1989), 19 R.F.L. (3d) 227 (Ont. H.C.J.). The father was granted liberal access.

160. Cairns v. Cairns (1994), 3 R.F.L. (4th) 397 (N.B. Q.B. (Fam. Div.)); Savidant v. MacLeod, supra note 139; Whiffen v. Buckoltz, supra note 156; C. (R.M.) v. C (J. R. ) (1995), 12 R.F.L. (4th) 440 (B.C. S.C.); Deane v. Deane (1995), 14 R.F.L. (4th) 55 (Ont. Ct. (Gen. Div.)).

161. C. (R. M.) v. C. (J. R.), ibid.

162. Cases in which the award of custody or access was unclear were excluded, resulting in 42 pre-Divorce Act, 1985 and 93 post-Divorce Act, 1985 cases discussed here.

163. Metz v. Metz, supra note 147.

164. Abdo v. Abdo, supra note 147 at 188. See also Dolgopol v. Dolgopol (1995), 10 R.F.L. (4th) 368 (Sask. Q.B.).

165. Supra note 156; Scono v. Scono (1984), 41 R.F.L. (2d) 57 (Ont. H.C.J.); T.W.D. v. Y.M.D. (1989), 20 R.F.L. (3d) 183 (N.S. S.C.T.D.). The fact that this consideration does not appear in the discourse does not mean, necessarily, that it was not considered. It is more likely than not that if one were to interview judges, privately, after deciding family law cases, it would be found that there are many matters judges take into account when deciding cases that are never articulated in a formal manner.

166. For example, section 16(9) of the Divorce Act, 1985 states that, in making a custody and access order a court “shall take into consideration only the best interests of the child.”

167. I doubt that anyone who works in the legal system escapes the dominance of legal rules entirely. Upon reflection, I think that it is likely that I accepted legal rules in a similar manner when I practised law in the 1980s.

168. See also Beck v. Balsillie (1994), 2 R.F.L. (4th) 91 (N.W.T. S.C.). D. (D.L) v. W. (R.J.) (1995), 10 R.F.L. (4th) 130 (Sask. Q.B.).

169. Sherry v. Sherry (1994), 1 R.F.L. (4th) 146 at 155 9P.E.I. S.C.T.D.).

170. See also.Boyd, S., “(Re)Placing the State: Family, Law and Oppression” (1994) 9:1C.J.L.S. 39CrossRefGoogle Scholar; Judges are expressing concern that requirements to consider conduct would simply encourage litigation. See, for example, F. (T.R.) v. S. (P.K.) (1994), 1 R.F.L. (4th) 134 (Alta Q.B.) at 140.

171. See also Langer, supra note 146.

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173. A statutory bias in favour of women has the potential to create other sorts of injustices in individual cases. See for example Scullion v. Scullion (1995), 12 R.F.L. (4th) 421 (N.B. Q.B. (Fam. Div.)).

174. For example Galanter, supra note 37; Brooke, supra note 19.

175. Galanter, ibid at 268.

176. Despite the new provisions of the Divorce Act, 1986 endorsing maximum contact and directing judges not to consider parental conduct in awarding custody and access, the reported cases indicate that this did not result in children being left with abusers more often. See also Clark, supra note 121; also Pulkingham, supra note 90 at 90–91. Prior to the implementation of the Divorce Act, 1986, in 23.8% of the cases examined, joint or sole custody of children was awarded to, or left with, an abusive parent (usually the father). After the implementation of the Divorce Act, that figure dropped to 16.1%. Similarly, awards of access to abusers in the reported cases decreased slightly and denials of access to abusers increased slightly (59.5% of the cases awarded abusers access to their children prior to the Divorce Act, 55.9% after; 16.7% of the cases denied abusers access to their children prior to the Divorce Act, 28% after. While it is not possible to claim that these figures are significant, since there is no way of knowing how representative they are, they do suggest that the statutory changes did not markedly affect judicial practice. Others have noted a similar phenomenon with respect to changes to child custody law, generally. See Clark and Pulkingham, ibid.

177. For references to the psychological literature on this point, see supra note 11.

178. Divorce Act, 1985, supra note 80, s. 16(10).

179. Young v. Young, supra note 159 at 235.

180. It should not be assumed, when reading my arguments here, that I am suggesting that professional “knowledge” is more just than law. Quite the contrary, since my argument has been that both law and professional knowledge evolve from social change produced by the power dynamics of the social order. If this is correct, dominant professional knowledge will only be as “just” or “correct” as the social order is just or correct. My intention is not to make moral assertions, but simply to explore the connections between the social order, professional knowledge and law in the context of women abuse cases when there are dependent children to consider whether the statutory changes being suggested are likely to benefit women. I do not know whether or not the current professional “knowledge” about the effects of partner abuse on children is “just” or “correct” since my understandings of “correct” and “just” are just as much coloured by time, place and society as anyone else's.

181. Tremble v. Hill (1987), 7 R.F.L. (3d) 85 (Ont. Unif. Fam.Ct.) at 88.

182. Alexander v. Creary (1995), 14 R.F.L. (4th) 311 (Ont. Ct. (Prov. Div.)).

183. Cairns v. Cairns, supra note 160 at 401. Here also we find the court referring to professional “expertise” in order to justify the decision.

184. Abdo v. Abdo, supra note 147 at 188.

185. (1995) 15 R.F.L. (4th) 90 (B.C. S.C.) at 92.

186. Ibid. at 93.

187. Supra note 16.

188. See also Maccoby, Depner & Mnookin, supra note 121.

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