Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- List of illustrations
- Foreword by Jack Goody
- Preface
- Introduction by Emanuel Marx
- 1 The Sanusi order and the Bedouin
- 2 The Bedouin way of life
- 3 The tied and the free
- 4 Aspects of the feud
- 5 Proliferation of segments
- 6 The power of shaikhs
- 7 Debt relationships
- 8 Family and marriage
- 9 Bridewealth
- 10 The status of women
- Notes
- Bibliography
- Index
- Cambridge Studies in Social and Cultural Anthropology
- Plate section
8 - Family and marriage
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 02 December 2009
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- List of illustrations
- Foreword by Jack Goody
- Preface
- Introduction by Emanuel Marx
- 1 The Sanusi order and the Bedouin
- 2 The Bedouin way of life
- 3 The tied and the free
- 4 Aspects of the feud
- 5 Proliferation of segments
- 6 The power of shaikhs
- 7 Debt relationships
- 8 Family and marriage
- 9 Bridewealth
- 10 The status of women
- Notes
- Bibliography
- Index
- Cambridge Studies in Social and Cultural Anthropology
- Plate section
Summary
Marriage and the father-son relationship
When a marriage takes place among the Bedouin of Cyrenaica, a nuptial tent is set up some distance away from that of the groom's father. There is no particular significance about the nuptial tent itself, but it must be pitched at a distance so that the father ‘will not see it’ – although, obviously, in a country of large level plains, it stands out conspicuously. This pretence that the tent remains unseen by the father is pushed to the point of his denying any knowledge of what is afoot. A middle-aged or elderly man with a family adopts a similar attitude to any marriage in which his son participates, as groom or as guest. An elder, the father of three unmarried sons (one of whom, in his late twenties, was known to be getting impatient about marriage), when I asked after his eldest son, insisted that he was away with the camels, although the son was conspicuous in a semicircle of young men encouraging a blindfolded maiden in the movements of her seductive dance outside a wedding tent in his full view. Prior to the wedding festivities, the father will have participated in negotiations, although even in these he will have remained silent, leaving an affine, as a rule, to arrange the details with the girl's father and his kinsmen. The father feigns aloofness from the start of negotiations until after the wedding celebrations have ended.
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- The Bedouin of CyrenaicaStudies in Personal and Corporate Power, pp. 188 - 213Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 1991