Skip to main content Accessibility help
×
Hostname: page-component-84b7d79bbc-x5cpj Total loading time: 0 Render date: 2024-07-27T21:30:11.055Z Has data issue: false hasContentIssue false

21 - Really nice guys

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  24 November 2023

Kopano Ratele
Affiliation:
University of Stellenbosch, South Africa
Get access

Summary

Alles ist gut (All Is Well) is a searing German film written and directed by Eva Trobisch, her first feature-length movie, first released in 2018. It is, among other interpretations, a film about the many sides of silence.

The main protagonist is Janne, played by Aenne Schwarz. Janne is about to begin a job as a temp in a publishing company. After a class reunion party, she is raped by Martin, who, she will find out, is her future boss’s brother-in-law. What follows is a slow-paced story in which Janne acts as if nothing happened.

The film is about what not speaking about sexual coercion does to a woman, when she cannot even name what was done to her as sexual violence. The violent sexual act is treated as though it is not really violence, yet the viewers are left in no doubt about what they have witnessed. When Janne and her mother have a sauna together, and her mother asks about the bruise on the side of her face and what happened, Janne lies. Despite her mother’s repeated questions, she opts to say nothing happened. When her would-be boss, Robert, asks about the bruises, she says nothing. Her boy friend also does not get told the truth. Although they were financially insolvent before the rape, the couple are shown to have had a well-functioning relationship. What Janne wants is to go on as if all is well.

But rape alters the future and the self.

The first time Janne meets Martin after the rape is at the theatre to which Robert has invited her, because his partner is feeling unwell. At the theatre, Janne spends an uncomfortable period of time sandwiched between her boss and her rapist. After the play, Martin approaches her and wants to talk. She elects to talk about everything but the violation. And she offers her cheeks to be kissed by him, although rather hesitantly. Only when she is walking back from the theatre alone, in a telling scene, does her body shake, and through her gestures and guttural sounds we are given a sense of what is happening inside her.

Type
Chapter
Information
Publisher: Wits University Press
Print publication year: 2022

Access options

Get access to the full version of this content by using one of the access options below. (Log in options will check for institutional or personal access. Content may require purchase if you do not have access.)

Save book to Kindle

To save this book to your Kindle, first ensure coreplatform@cambridge.org is added to your Approved Personal Document E-mail List under your Personal Document Settings on the Manage Your Content and Devices page of your Amazon account. Then enter the ‘name’ part of your Kindle email address below. Find out more about saving to your Kindle.

Note you can select to save to either the @free.kindle.com or @kindle.com variations. ‘@free.kindle.com’ emails are free but can only be saved to your device when it is connected to wi-fi. ‘@kindle.com’ emails can be delivered even when you are not connected to wi-fi, but note that service fees apply.

Find out more about the Kindle Personal Document Service.

  • Really nice guys
  • Kopano Ratele, University of Stellenbosch, South Africa
  • Book: Why Men Hurt Women and Other Reflections on Love, Violence and Masculinity
  • Online publication: 24 November 2023
Available formats
×

Save book to Dropbox

To save content items to your account, please confirm that you agree to abide by our usage policies. If this is the first time you use this feature, you will be asked to authorise Cambridge Core to connect with your account. Find out more about saving content to Dropbox.

  • Really nice guys
  • Kopano Ratele, University of Stellenbosch, South Africa
  • Book: Why Men Hurt Women and Other Reflections on Love, Violence and Masculinity
  • Online publication: 24 November 2023
Available formats
×

Save book to Google Drive

To save content items to your account, please confirm that you agree to abide by our usage policies. If this is the first time you use this feature, you will be asked to authorise Cambridge Core to connect with your account. Find out more about saving content to Google Drive.

  • Really nice guys
  • Kopano Ratele, University of Stellenbosch, South Africa
  • Book: Why Men Hurt Women and Other Reflections on Love, Violence and Masculinity
  • Online publication: 24 November 2023
Available formats
×