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Part III - Interdependence, Goal Pursuit, and Person Factors

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  19 June 2020

Laura V. Machia
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Syracuse University, New York
Christopher R. Agnew
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Purdue University, Indiana
Ximena B. Arriaga
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Purdue University, Indiana
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