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5 - Friends

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  30 July 2009

Naomi Tadmor
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New Hall, Cambridge
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Introduction

In the eighteenth century, the term ‘friend’ had a plurality of meanings that spanned kinship ties, sentimental relationships, economic ties, occupational connections, intellectual and spiritual attachments, sociable networks, and political alliances. In this chapter, we shall investigate a spectrum of relationships designated in the eighteenth century as ‘friendship’.

Today the word ‘friend’ is not applied ordinarily to designate familial relationships, but in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries usages of ‘friend’ to designate kin were extremely common. At the same time, however, ‘friend’ was used to refer to a wide range of non-related supporters, such as patrons, guardians, employers, and other allies. In addition, ‘friend’ was used to describe well-wishers, companions, members of social circles, or select friends – as it does today. Ralph Josselin, for example, used the word ‘friend’ to refer to a wide range of kin, from his sisters, brothers-in-law, uncles, and cousins, to his wife's relations. About a century and a half later, Miss Weeton still described the travails of women who married without the consent of their ‘friends’, namely, their relations. In contrast, Samuel Pepys used the word ‘friend’ to designate a non-related patron, as he rushed to the death-bed of one Mr Pierce to promise him that he would ‘be a friend’ to his wife and family. The rector Benjamin Rogers also named his non-related patron, who had found him employment, as ‘the best friend I ever had’.

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Family and Friends in Eighteenth-Century England
Household, Kinship and Patronage
, pp. 167 - 215
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
Print publication year: 2001

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  • Friends
  • Naomi Tadmor, New Hall, Cambridge
  • Book: Family and Friends in Eighteenth-Century England
  • Online publication: 30 July 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511496097.007
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  • Naomi Tadmor, New Hall, Cambridge
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  • Online publication: 30 July 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511496097.007
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  • Friends
  • Naomi Tadmor, New Hall, Cambridge
  • Book: Family and Friends in Eighteenth-Century England
  • Online publication: 30 July 2009
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511496097.007
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